Why cheat? From my perspective

I've always kind of thought that if someone ever really WANTED to cheat, then they need to examine themselves and their relationship. If they aren't strong enough not to be committed to the person they are going to cheat on, then they need to leave the relationship and at least have the respect for that person to save them the pain.

If the relationship is the problem, then it's time to either end it, or try to salvage it. That decision is something personal and cannot be influenced by friends or loved ones. In the end, YOU have to do what's best for YOU.

Back to Ryan and Reese, though. If you read some of the Hollywood stories, this was supposed to be the perfect Hollywood marriage. Of course, the tabloids had stories of problems starting a while ago. In Hollywood marriages, the question begs - Do the tabloids follow the marriage, or does the marriage follow the tabloid?